Most of us, at some point in our lives, have heard a great piece of advice about love.
Perhaps it's something from your mother or father, a grandparent, a mentor, a friend, something you've read -- a piece of advice that has stayed with you and has helped you in finding love, understanding love or staying in love.
In the hetero world, this means letting the guy pursue you.
Which is to say, not calling too much or being too accommodating to his needs.
My dad said something which has never left me in my 14 years of marriage, "You only have to answer to yourself. If you can live with this man don't let others influence your decision.