He wouldn't have to move heaven and earth if he didn't have some obstacle in the way. The opposite of Hard To Get is "easy." Easy means being too eager. "I hate to say it, but the more I'm mysterious, the more he wants to be with me." -- Lisa Hard to Get is a time-honored principle for a reason. First of all, that's one of the many MYTHS about being hard to get. Whatever you call it, these "games" can mean the difference between being alone with your regrets - or living every day with the man you love. And when you play the game of love, be sure to play hard to get. It's that kind of program that women love to own and generally don't tell the entire world about it - but they devour the teachings privately and take its principles to heart.HINT: Men actually love moving mountains for a woman. The principles of being Hard To Get are all about valuing yourself! Love is a "game" - the most wonderful "game" ever invented. Second, what those people are really afraid of is that playing hard to get will give you an "unfair advantage." It will. How do you know when you have won his heart completely? When he can't wait to bring you home to meet his parents.
When other men are around you at a party, he's confident in you, but... Being hard to get is about one of the most basic truths of human nature: We love a feeling of accomplishment. Many people are suspicious and downright hostile about this truth of human nature.
We love to work for something valuable and finally obtain it. They waste precious energy fighting against it - even though the truth stares them in the face every day!
But, while we were perfect for each other on paper, the relationship lacked passion.
I felt that to continue going out with him would have been unfair to both of us, so I ended our relationship. Many people — including my mother and best friend — accused me of being too fussy, and said that I should stick with Simon, as he ticked so many boxes.
It's not a pretty picture." We just love it when MEN say, "I don't want a woman who plays games." We just smile and think, "Yeah, right. I have literally spent a lifetime studying the subject of MEN - and WOMEN - everything from flirting to attracting, chasing, being chased, falling in love, and why men and women fall in love. That same man who never calls you back is quite capable of falling head over heels in love with a woman who makes him feel an overwhelming desire to win her.